Does appreciating the masculine feel too vulnerable for you?

DOES APPRECIATING THE MASCULINE FEEL TOO VULNERABLE FOR YOU?

I know it has done for me.

When I went through yet another relationship breakdown about 1.5 years ago, I started to look deeper into polarity work, as I knew that there were some things about my behaviour that I needed to look into with my relationship with the masculine.

On that journey I discovered that while I found It easy to share my appreciation with my family, friends and clients, that doing so within the context of intimate relationships, felt really hard.

So I started digging into why...

And what I discovered...was simply this...

I believed that if I shared my positive appreciaton towards my man that he would take advantage of me and my precious open heart.

Thats why saying things like

"I feel so loved and cared for when you play with my son."

"It feels so good to be held in your arms.I get goosebumps every time you do."

"My body gets really turned on when you share....."

Felt so cheesy, awkward...like i seriously wanted to run away.

However, in my heart I desired a masculine man who would cherish and ravish me...(i have always been a bit of a romantic)

And so when i discovered that when we appreciate our men, it triggers their hero instinct and they will instinctively do more of the cherishing and ravishing, I knew that I needed to journey through my repression of expression people pleasing chain.

I realized along the way, how much time I would spend complaining (in my head) about what the masculine wasnt doing for me.

I dont know about you, but I was so used to seeing where the gaps were that It would come out as nagging or not at all and turn into resentment and frustation...

And this never got me anywhere.

In fact It would repell the King and not support me in my Desire to be cherished and ravished more of the time.

When we dont honour, the masculine feels demasculated, like his balls have been cut off when we nag and complain and they turn grumpy and defensive as they cannot function properly as a man.

In short, It doesnt f@*King work.

And yet when I decided to stop doing what wasnt working and started doing what could, It has been nothing short of beautiful.

The more I appreciate him and let him know how his actions make me feel, the more he makes It his mission to do more of that thing with love. ❤️🔥💃

We both get what we want.

It brings out the feminine in me and the strong masculine in him.

Who knew?!

If you find yourself in a relationship complaining about the masculine and you would love him to do more of what you want without doing so

Or are single and would LOVE to learn how to do more of this for the Next time (like I did)

I have 5 places for your Unshackled Truth Illumination call where we will explore

❤️What you truly desire to create with the masculine.

❤️What really stops you from being vulnerable.

❤️ HOW to create a sovereign relationship that is filled with truth, LOVE and Desire.