Before coming to Marina, I was really struggling in my new relationship, feeling insecure about myself and this busy entrepreneur I so suddenly fell in love with. In only one session with Marina I got a total different perspective about this relationship, in fact relationships in general and what a perfect match we were. We are now engaged to be married and am super thrilled that the relationship went from struggle to effortlessness. If you want to transform difficult relationships into ones that seem effortless, then please go to Your Pathway To Love. It will change the way you feel about falling in love and most importantly about the art of staying in LOVE.
Annik Rau, Founder of Pony Express
I met Marina briefly at an event and during our brief conversation I had a light-bulb moment thanks to Marina’s ability to get you to seek your own answers. Following this, we agreed to have a one-to-one. Marina quickly put me at ease and in a brief time had me drawing on my inner resources and wisdom to see past some challenges. Marina asked insightful questions which got me thinking – during the conversation and since. Marina then ensured that I had some additional resources to help me work through things going forward, but always made sure that the real learning came from an internal place rather than from her. I look forward to working with Marina in the future to ensure that my introduction into ‘thinking in the moment’ and living through my ‘inner wisdom’ is embedded and long-lasting.
Denise, Image Consultant, UK
I’ve been working closely with Marina Pearson for nearly two years. In that time, it’s been a joy to watch her life transform from stress and struggle to ease and effortlessness. This is one of the most essential qualities in a coach; she 'walks her talk', deeply embodying what she shares and coaches. Marina brings a rare quality of depth, connection and insight to her coaching, and facilitates profound and transformative experiences for her clients. Marina doesn’t just teach effortless living; she actually lives it. That’s what makes her uniquely qualified to create transformational experiences for others.
Jamie Smart, Coach and author of the international bestseller CLARITY: Clear Mind, Better Performance, Bigger Results
I have known Marina for years, and have worked with her closely also. She has a real gift of knowing what question to ask in the right moment to shift you from anxiety, overwhelm and fear into peace and a real sense of freedom. Marina has a natural innate talent and anyone working with Marina, is truly lucky as she really wants the best for her clients and she really is the real deal. Thank you Marina
Rosanne Ainslie, Founder of XtraHand
Mothers day was such a gift for me – I got to spend it with my beautiful son Leo, who gifted me a card and some beautiful flowers. I was also treated to a beautiful lunch. And it got me thinking about my relationship with my mum. For many years I found it difficult to connect with mine, and in a blink of an eye she was gone. They say that if you want to grow the most, then spend this time with your parents!
Having coached clients to transform their family stresses, namely those that involve relationships with their parents, and more specifically their mothers, I have come to see that mother/son/daughter relationships can be challenging if you cannot really see what is creating the problem in the first place.
My intention with this blog is to guide you to see what is really going on with your relationship with your mum that may well be challenging you at this minute in the hope that something I say can relieve you of the stress you experience with them.
1. The feelings of frustration that you feel cannot come from your mum’s behavior. It can only ever come from one place and one place only – from your thinking in that given moment. The minute you think your feelings of frustrations are coming from the other person, is the moment you can spiral and frustrate yourself even more because you want to change the outside circumstances. In this case – change your mother. Of course we cannot change the other person and in this case – why would you want to as your feelings are coming from your state of mind.
2.Know that your mother is coming from her thought-felt reality. She may well be oblivious that her feelings come from her thinking. And in her innocence she will want to change you because she thinks her insecurity comes from you and what you are upto in the world. But she can only function at the level of consciousness she finds herself in – just like you. This of course suggests that we are all blinded by what is true from time to time. What this has implied for my clients is that compassion can arise from this truth.
3.When you blame and shame the other person, it won’t help, no matter how good it feels. In my experience all it will do is create more animosity. In truth, if you blame another, you are pointing the finger with three fingers pointing back at you. We are one, and so with that – the only person you are waging war on, is yourself. The only person that you are hurting when you carry resentment is yourself. So is it time to let it go?
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4.You can feel validated without being validated. One of the biggest patterns of behavior I see with my clients is that they wait to be validated by their mothers (or fathers) so they can feel good about who they are and what they are upto in the world. However what if you knew that your feelings of validation cannot come from what your mother says or doesn’t say? Your feelings of validation come from you! So you don’t need to wait anymore. You don’t need to look for praise – just go out and do and be what and who you want to be!
5. Egos create issues not people
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