My Story…

For as long as I can remember I struggled with living a people pleasing life filled with codependent behaviors. I would either fall into toxic relationships with men who had addictive or narcissistic tendencies or make decisions that would harm my financial wellbeing by putting my trust in people who had not earned it.

I now see that I manifested these relationships and situations so that I could put my people pleaser and rescuer to task so as to keep the relationships alive.

While I learnt these beautiful ways as a child to keep myself safe and loved, I was paying the very high price of not living MY very own Garden of Eden: my own version of The Unshackled Way.

Until, I found a way through. It's true, that it has not been an overnight job, and that with every relationship and situation I learnt to unshackle myself from another chain. Nevertheless it was not until the summer of 2020, that I was initiated into my own Queen with my son's custody battle. I was not only called to embody her fully through this experience, but later that year, her name was made known to me: Milagrosa, The Concha Queen of Unshackled Truth, Love and Desire. Thanks to her, I started the journey to focus solely on healing my abandonment wound that was imprisoned by my people pleasing chains to protect my heart from rejection.

Not only did she lead me to my King, she also opened up the pathway for me work with the energy of the Queen Conch and finally meet and embody my Empress Regina, a loving open hearted women who knows the power of council, makes informed decisions and is lead by her desires to manifest what is truly aligned for her. But all from a place of love and abundance versus from shadow and fear.

I share this with you, as I know that if I can find my way through to live life in an unshackled way, so can you. Having walked the path and unshackled myself, I know that together we can do the same for you too.

YOUR SORCERESS AND SOUL GUIDE…

Aside from having walked this path personally,  I also have over 15 years of experience in guiding women one way or another to become more of who they came here to be. I have authored 2 books, the first, Goodbye Mr Ex, became an international bestseller, translated into 4 languages and The Joy of Being that also was translated into 2 languages. 

I love expressing myself in all ways and have spoken to many audiences around the world, written in magazines, appeared on ITV This Morning and interviewed many on my podcast The Joy of Being (which was included in The Top Ten of Wellbeing Podcasts for New Magazine, alongside Russell Brand, Dr Chatterjee and Ruby Wax!)

So if you are wondering whether you are in safe hands, you are. And as to be expected, unshackled expression and desire is what I am all about! So together we will magically manifest what your heart desires to embody the loving life you came here for. 

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