Embracing Self-Love and Emotional Independence
Discover True Happiness Within
“I just want to feel like I did when I was with him."
One of my clients shared this with me a few months back. And it's quite common for me to hear this from other clients too. My response was simply "You do realize that the feeling of LOVE that you were looking for back then and still do is always coming from you?" This stopped her in her tracks. She looked at me with a mixture of disbelief and relief.
She then checked in "Are you saying that what I have been searching for all this time in a relationship has actually been inside of me all of this time?" "Yes" How cool is that?!
Discovering Self-Love in Relationships
In the journey of self-discovery, one profound realization is that the essence of love and fulfillment comes from within. Many often seek validation and affection from external sources, especially in romantic relationships. However, embracing self-love in relationships teaches us that the purest form of love originates internally, shaping how we interact with others and perceive affection.
The Power of Emotional Independence and Finding Happiness Within
Emotional independence is a cornerstone of personal well-being. It’s about finding strength in your own company and satisfaction in your personal achievements. This autonomy allows individuals to enter or stay in relationships not out of necessity but from a place of healthy choice. Cultivating this independence is crucial for anyone looking to break free from cycles of dependency and dissatisfaction in relationships.
Finding happiness within yourself is an enlightening experience. Many spend years searching for happiness in external factors—careers, relationships, accolades—only to realize that true contentment must come from within.
The Journey to Discover Yourself
The quest to discover yourself can be transformative, especially when intertwined with personal relationships. It often leads to surprising insights about what truly makes you happy and fulfilled.
Embracing Your True Desires
What most of my beautiful women don't see (as I didn’t for many years) is that what they search for *out there* is actually already inside of them. This has a great number of implications but the main ones that it becomes easier for them to
Stop outsourcing their love and well-being to someone else.
Stop getting themselves into relationships that are just not right for them because they just want to be loved - and FEEL loved.
Stop staying in relationships that are no longer aligned or good for them. They are loveable.
Period.
The irony of all of this, is that when they are no longer desperately seeking, they are FREE to choose what's most aligned for them and listen to their TRUE desire VS what they thought they wanted. This may surprise them as they may just decide that they are happy being single....
